“One of the secrets to a happy marriage is remembering the source of our joy, which is not one another. The source of our joy is the Lord. Yes, we share tons of joyous moments, but we don’t expect, let alone demand, endless joy-filled moments from each other. ”
~ Liz Curtis Higgs ~
from the devotional: Rise and Shine
When I read the title of the devotional Darlene picked the quote from, I was instantly reminded of my dad. You might wonder why…
When I was still living at home, my dad used to wake us up with the smile on his face and the words “Rise and Shineâ€. When I was younger, I never understood his joy. Even when he got really sick with cancer, his morning routine never changed. My dad never lost the bounce in his step or the twinkle in his eyes…
Let me give you just a little back-ground on my dad’s up-bringing. My dad was born in Berlin, 1938. WWII was in fully swing. My dad’s biological father was imprisoned in Russia and died there. My dad’s mother didn’t really care what happened to my dad and his younger sister. The only blessing they had in their lives was my great-grandfather. He was a circuit pastor for the Lutheran church in Germany. At the young age of 4 my dad was exposed to the Word of God—the source of joy in his life.
If you are wondering about my parent’s marriage, I am glad to tell you that they were very happy. Even at the times they disagreed, because their joy came from the heart.
Today, I understand why my dad had the twinkle in his eyes. No matter what life handed him, he knew the redeeming love of our Lord Jesus Christ. That was enough reason for my dad to smile and tell his kids to “Rise and Shineâ€.
My mom tells me that I have the same twinkle in my eyes; that I am more like my dad as I get older. There is no greater compliment for me…And today, I enjoy especially the early morning hours when I have the house to myself to be in His presence…
“You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.â€
~ Psalm 16:11 (ESV)
I know that I am way off the topic–I just couldn’t help but sharing about my earthly dad with you today. It might be that the anniversary of his death is right around the corner…
To read Darlene’s and other Godly women’s thoughts on this week’s IOW, please visit Darlene’s blog Darlene Schacht dot com…Hope to see you there.
Blessings on your day and as always…