“Let us learn to discern whether the words spoken against us or against God or against the truth are merely for the wind–spoken not from the soul, but from the sore. If they are for the wind, let us wait in silence and not reprove. Restoring the soul, not reproving the sore, is the aim of our love”
~ John Piper from “A Godward Life“~
To tell you the truth – currently I have a little issue with my sister. Although we live over 6,000 miles apart, we are very much involved in each other’s life. Actually – it is not an issue – I am angry with her. But since I don’t handle confrontations very well, I just keep silent — for the time being. You see, she went through a lot over the last couple of years. I don’t want to throw salt into her open wounds…
BUT – she is not doing the right thing. She is not following what the Bible is teaching — at least not in her current situation. So, how do I restore her soul? How do I make it clear to her that she is wandering off of the path God has laid before her?
I am not talking to her about the subject right now — I want my anger to vanish. I would not accomplish anything with yelling at her — even though I want to. God has told us in the book of Galatians (6:1), if someone is caught in transgressions they should be restored gently (in my own words)…Although I have grounds to ‘reprove’ my sister’s actions, I want to wait for God’s Spirit to give me the green light. I don’t want to be the bull in the china closet. Through His love, I can restore her soul in a gentle way…
“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.” ~ 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (ESV)
Please visit out hostess, Loni at “Finding Joy in the Morning” to read her and other Christian women’s take on this week’s IOW quote.
Blessings on your day and as always…