“Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.†~ Ephesians 5:31 (ESV)
Thank you, Christine for the wonderful 30-Day-Challenge in connection with Marriage Mondays. Christine’s post is talking about being one in marriage — that we are not only responsible for our own needs, but also the needs of our husbands. How true that is. I have to admit that I have had some very selfish ambitions in the past. I wanted, I needed…Thank goodness God that has dramatically changed. About 90% of the time, I do put the needs of my husband before mine. Some days I do not do it without grumbling under my breath though…
How did my week go honoring my Sweetheart? For the most part very well. Just a few times I had suggestions (I wish I could just stop it). Praying went well on a daily basis–communication about my feelings is still a challenge though *sigh*. And I completely blew it on Saturday afternoon…
As I have mentioned this past week, the summer heat really kicks my tush. I get a little cranky. Besides being cranky due to the heat, I started to get all weepy on Saturday afternoon. You see, I started to scan some family pictures (especially Daniel’s and my Sweetheart’s). I was reminded of the time passed by and how fast kids grow up. Yes, I was close to tears already. Now the horrible thing that happened…I walked out on my husband. Before you start worrying, let me explain.
If one of us leaves the house to go to the store or run a quick errand, we kiss each other and say “I Love You”. As I mentioned, I was cranky and weepy. My Sweetheart made a joke, which I totally didn’t get take well. I walked out of the house without a good-bye, kiss and our usual “I love you”. My body language was not the best either–waving my hand with a “whatever motion”. As soon as I started the car, I felt horrible. So not only did I get the stuff for supper, I also picked up some cherries for my Sweetheart, because he really likes them as a snack. When I got back, I was trying to be in a better mood — at least not cranky (although I was still weepy)…
So, in addition to my goals from the previous weeks, I will add “watching my body language”…
Thank you for stopping by today…Be blessed and as always…
Dear Iris,
I am sorry about the heart I have been watching on the news and always think of you. Hope things cool down soon. May the Lord bless you this week and always in your marriage. You are doing a great job and are such an inspiration. I know what you mean sometimes my husband doesn’t want my suggestions. I love you my friend and when you feel the need and have time you can give me suggestions…LOL but I know you are busy enough but love your book selections, devotioanl thoughts and just wanted to let you know you are appreciated by so many.
Hugs and Blessings,
Angel (Angel Mama ) ():)
Oh goodness can you tell I had too many posts, visiting and house things to do that I meant heat not heart sorry.
Smiles and Blessings,
Angel ():)
Blessings to you sweet friend, praying for your marriage this week.
Selfish ambitions? You and me both. I’ve been there definitely. Sometimes it takes a nudge from God to realise what we’re doing. And yes the heat makes me cranky too sometimes 🙂
God’s blessings on you this week… and I pray that you get some relief from the heat!
You are an inspiration to me Iris. I think of you often and how blessed I am by your posts each day. You are doing a wonderful job with this challenge. I think buying your husband cherries after you left is a sweet token of love. Isn’t it great that our husbands so eagerly forgive us. Have a blessed week (and try to stay cool!!!!) And, I thought Okinawa was hot…..
Iris, thank you for your openness. I too struggle with body language at times. I’ll be saying one thing, but my body language says something completely different. Hmm… I wonder which speaks louder. I think it’s wonderful that you went through the extra effort and got something special for your sweetie. May God bless you this week.
I am lifting a prayer for you now. I appreciate your being real. Sometimes this can be more of a struggle than other times. YOu have blessed me. I know God will honor your efforts! Life is so short and goes by so fast! We need to enjoy each second we get with our loved ones! Thanks for the reminder!
Blessings,
Angela
I hope the heat wave lets up for you soon. I know I would be pretty difficult to live with if I was enduring such heat!
I too am working on my body language!
You poor thing! I’m sorry the heat and your sadness over your photos put you in a cranky mood. So understandable. Your husband was probably trying to cheer you up with his joke. Too bad it back-fired though. :~( I hope your husband gave you a hug and a kiss once it was all over. :~)
When the Lord taps me on my shoulder (as He did you) to let me know I screwed it up….big time…I feel so horrible, then I “go make it right” like you did with the sweet cherries. The Lord is so good and understanding….most of the time, our husbands are too….and they love us ANYWAY! I hope the rest of your weekend went well….may the Lord bless your week with lots of hugs and kisses!!!
Angie 🙂
Iris, sometimes it’s just so hard isn’t it? You’re doing great! You are always such an inspiration to me!
Praying that the Lord continues to bless your marriage!
I did the same thing this morning. Only I just wouldn’t look at him when he kissed me. I did say “I love you,” but with my hand over my eyes. He asked me if I was mad at him as he was walking out the door, and I just said “you’re going to be late.” Nice huh?
Thank you for sharing your struggles. I’ll be doing some apologizing tonight. Again.
Body language is one thing I haven’t even thought about as a goal. That’s so important! I’m with you on the suggestions…although mine aren’t always nice ones… 🙂
I’m so glad you’re in this challenge. You are an encouragement and inspiration to so many…me included!
Whenever I read these posts, Iris, I get convicted. I know just what you mean about the “body language” and -with me – facial expressions. I have a very “readable” face. I need to watch that too. The other thing I have to work on is all the “helpful hints” I drop. When I started to think about that, I noticed how often I do it. Nag – is a word that springs to mind!!
Thanks for being so transparent and honest. It encourages me to try harder too. I think you are doing a really good job. We all have those weepy moments. I guess it’s how we deal with them that counts. I have lots to work on.
Iris, your post today has convicted me! You’re not the only one that will be working on her body language this week.
Blessing to you and prayers for relief from the heat. 😀
Awww….My hubby and I also have the kissing bye and so forth before parting. You are so honest to post about being *uncooperative* on your way to the store…l0l
I feel weepy too, when I look through my photos of the years I have shared with my hubby and children. Time is swiftly passing……….
Iris,thank you so much for sharing with us about your inners. We are humanbeing, so it is natural for our moods being affected by the weather or other things. But the Lord will love us whatever we are. You are a special sister for me. Thanks.
Maybe God lead you and your family.
Praying for many cool breezes of peace and joy to you from the East! Despite your crankiness you are seeing the need to change and though we each have our weaknesses, recognizing it and working on facing it head-on is super! We get up, dust off, make ammends and work towards reaching that target more each new day! I pray this week will be cooler and that you would triumph! Blessings!
I have been having those same kind of moments too, in fact for the past couple of weeks I have been going through some snippy things wether it be my mouth or body language. I too hear the Lords conviction, its like my flesh screams though.lol